‭#‬MeToo運動掀起了一年後，另一個標籤‭#‬WhyIDidntReport近日出現，美國社會的意見分成兩個立場，面對這場性別之戰，剛剛連Cara Delevingne也氣憤得要參一腳。到底‭#‬WhyIDidntReport‭ ‬討論的是甚麼？這得從美國最高法院大法官人選Brett Kavanaugh說起。

事源一位大學教授Christine Blasey Ford指控Kavanaugh在30多年前（即Ford的高中時期）對她進行性侵，但自己一直因為害怕所以壓抑著自己的情感，沒有跟任何人透露過心聲，也未曾報警。事件直到Ford‭ ‬六年前參加心理治療時才被揭發，她公開此事後，Kavanaugh一口否認了，當地時間27日二人出席日出席參院司法委員會聽證會。

為甚麼事件會造成哄動呢？這要多得總統特朗普的言論，他質疑Ford指控的真實性，說如果真有其事，那當時的執法機關就應該有她的指控記錄，還建議她把資料拿出來，一起研究事發的實質時間和地點。

I have no doubt that, if the attack on Dr. Ford was as bad as she says, charges would have been immediately filed with local Law Enforcement Authorities by either her or her loving parents. I ask that she bring those filings forward so that we can learn date, time, and place!

— Donald J. Trump (@realDonaldTrump) September 21, 2018

特朗普這一招轉移焦點，當然引起大家的不滿，網民紛紛以‭#‬WhyIDidntReport來回應，「解釋」給特朗普和他的支持者聽，為何當初不報警。當中包括女星Cara Delevingne（她曾公開指證Harvey Weinstein性騷擾過自己），她在Twitter指因為不想傷害對方的家人、覺得內疚，所以一直猶豫不決。

Because I felt ashamed of what happened and didn’t want to publicly ruin someone’s life, even though they privately ruined mine #WhyIDidntReport

— Cara Delevingne (@Caradelevingne) September 27, 2018

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其實不報警的原因可以有很多，例如怕別人不相信自己、覺得自己很骯髒、沒有能力改變現狀等等。沒有將事件訴諸法律，不代表性侵者沒有錯，或她們沒有被經歷影響心理和人生；我們不是受害人，很難感受他們所經歷的，但至少不要將責任歸咎於他們。

I was 20 when I was raped at a party by a guy who drugged my drink. I remember every detail of coming out of drugged stupor and fighting him off. I never reported because rape is the only crime where the victim takes the blame. It’s time we change this. #whyididntreportit http://t.co/SlmITelb1y

— Lisa S (@lisams1181) September 21, 2018

#WhyIDidntReport because the first time I did for a serious sexual assault as a teenager nothing came of it, and later I felt that I wasn’t important enough to make a big deal over. I was wrong.

— Mira Sorvino (@MiraSorvino) September 22, 2018