K-Love：韓國女生眼中的性感男生，原來有這些特質！

我們都深知生而為人，不同的家庭背景和遺傳造就了我們各自與眾不同的特點與長處。不過在韓國大眾眼裡，擁有哪些特質才算是「性感」呢？作為一個在外國居住多年後回到韓國的人，我覺得韓國人對於「性感」的界定和外國人非常不同。

Of course we are all born differently with unique genes and special backgrounds. But what are the key points in terms of how Korean society view “sexiness”? As a person who has lived overseas for a while and now living in Korea, I feel like the concept of “sexy” implies quite differently for Koreans and here is why.

External Sexiness

寬厚的肩膀

韓國人沒有像歐美人那樣癡迷於大力水手般健美的二頭肌，但是男生的肩膀還是要寬厚一點才好，這樣女生在被擁抱時就能感受到滿滿的安全感。此外，好看的鎖骨也是重要的加分項，它能提升整個肩膀的美感。看到這裏，你或許會覺得鎖骨好不好看完全是先天決定的，你要是這麼想就大錯特錯啦。已經有非常多的名人靠健身練出了寬厚的肩膀與漂亮的鎖骨，其中就包括李敏鎬、李鐘碩和金宇彬。只要進行不懈且合理的鍛鍊，人人都可以成功擁有性感的寬肩膀。

Wide Shoulders

Unlike Western culture, in Korea, men’s shoulders do not have to be buff with muscles popping like Popeye, but still has to be broad. This is mainly because women want to feel protected or loved when being hugged. To add on, pretty collarbones would be a plus factor since they make the shoulders look overall amazing. Some may think this is impossible to achieve unless one is born with it, but you are wrong. Some celebrities have succeeded in making a change through exercise, and prime examples of this would be famous stars like, Lee Min-Ho, Lee Jong-Seok, and Kim Ubin. As you can see, with exercise and intensive care, you will likely succeed as well.

手背與胳膊上爆出的血管

當男生手提重物時，手背和胳膊上的血管就會爆出，很多女生會覺得這非常性感。不少男生的明顯突出的血管是他們定期健身鍛鍊的結果；不過也有很多人天生如此，因為他們的血管在剛出生時就比大多數人的粗。

Veins in hands and arms

When men are holding something heavy, the veins in their hands and arms pop out and many girls find this sexy. Main reason why some men have visible veins is because they work out regularly. But this in fact is something one may or may not be born with because some do not have bold veins while others do without even trying.

Internal Sexiness

性感不只關乎外型，內在也一樣重要。並不是所有男生都要長得像姜棟元那樣帥才會討女生喜歡。

Physical features are not the only components women find sexy in men. In fact, not all men look as beautiful as Kang Dong Won but still much loved.

充滿磁性的嗓音

對於韓國人來說，有一副好嗓音很重要，這主要因為卡拉OK在韓國非常流行，大家都想通過一展歌喉來博得別人喜愛。所以如果男生能生就一副低沉、充滿磁性的嗓音就再好不過啦！在這點上，最好的事例莫過於電台主播成始璄還有他那句標誌性的「晚安」。他的嗓音融化了千千萬萬韓國女生的心，也讓她們欲罷不能地聽完他兩個小時的電台節目。

Melting Voice

Having a decent voice is very important for Koreans. This is mainly because karaoke is very popular and people tend to show their attractive points through singing. Having a deep and charming voice is definitely a plus! A great example would be Sung Si Kyung and his famous saying, “good night” at the very end of his radio broadcast show which made all women melt, and most importantly, made them listen to the program for two hours.

幽默感

彬彬有禮且極富幽默感，這對於男生來說是必不可少的。和一位總能想到有趣話題、永遠不會讓你感到無聊的男生約會是一件非常棒的事。這也解釋了為什麼一些不怎麼帥的韓國喜劇演員能娶到美女老婆，試問誰不會喜歡上一個總能想到辦法讓你開心的人呢。

此外，還有一些要素，比如會畫畫或者彈奏樂器，尤其是結他和鋼琴，也能提升男生的性感指數。

Good Sense

Men with good manners and a good sense of humor are definitely a must. Someone who can lead a conversation on without any hint of boredom would be amazing to go on a date with. This is the main reason why Korean comedians, who are not the sexiest by their looks, still marry beautiful women. Who wouldn’t love a man who can make their woman laugh and make her be happy, right? Another feature that is regarded sexy is men who can take great pictures or play an instrument well, such as the guitar or the piano.

TEXT: SUNGEUN KIM
CHINESE TRANSLATION:ELLEN N
DESIGN: SAMMY W/HOKK FABRICA