Celebrity Inspiration：9句語句，教你如何當個好閨蜜

on December 18, 2015 at 7:00 am

若然說愛情是一門學問，甚至是一堂必修課，那友情亦然。對某些女生來說，她們可以沒有男朋友的陪伴和愛錫，卻不能沒有了閨蜜的扶持和依賴。雖然男友和閨蜜的愛不能相比，亦大可共存，但坊間教導如何處理愛情問題的方法多的是，卻好像沒有人深究過跟好友的相處之道。人家說，隨著年紀越來越大，真心的朋友只會越來越少。學會好好跟閨蜜維持友誼，彷彿是人生必學的其中一種技能。不懂不緊要，讓名人們跟你分享他們的智慧吧。

Lots of people want to ride with you on the limo, but what you want is someone who will ride the bus with you when the limo breaks down.

– Oprah Winfrey

可以找到一個能共你吃喝玩樂的朋友不難，共富貴有哪個不可以，但那些在你艱難時願意跟你一起走過低潮的，才是真心相待的朋友。要好好珍惜呢。

A true friend stabs you in the front.

– Oscar Wilde

忠言也許逆耳，但總好過那些在你面前說謊話在你背後卻說壞話的小人。有時候朋友的意見「難聽」，或許也是出於他們緊張關心你。若果不在乎的話，又何必要當起這個丑角？

Every single problem I ever have is healable by Taylor Swift. If I ever I have an issue, Taylor has gone through it – she gives the most thought-out answers.

- Selena Gomez

普通朋友聽你說心事，或許只會跟你同聲同氣的發洩，但真心朋友聽你說心事，會給予你最真誠的建議，設身處地為你解決你的煩惱，因為他們不想看見你不開心。

(Miley Cyrus and I) are very strong-headed, so when we fight, it’s brutal and we’re like, ‘We’re never going to be friends again!’ Then two days later, we’re like, ‘I love you and I miss you!’

- Demi Lovato

兩夫妻有「床頭打交床尾和」之說，而閨蜜的版本，就是你今天氣瘋了，明天還是會繼續找她。這就是閨蜜的愛。

No matter how tired I am, I get dinner at least once a week with my girlfriends. Or have a sleepover. Otherwise my life is just all work.

- Jennifer Lawrence

「No one is really busy」，只要對方認定你是閨蜜好友，希望能約會相見，忙碌如Jennifer Lawrence也總能擠出一點時間。你明白嗎？

Friendship is the hardest thing in the world to explain. It’s not something you learn in school. But if you haven’t learned the meaning of friendship, you really haven’t learned anything.

- Muhammad Ali

沒有人是一座孤島，每個人都需要朋友，都需要學懂友誼的意義。你又學懂了嗎？

My two best girlfriends are from secondary school. I don’t have to explain anything to them. I don’t have to apologize for anything. They know.

- Emma Watson

常常說，在年輕時候認識的朋友才是最真的朋友。年少時，世界就只有讀書和玩樂，非常純潔；但長大後的世界多了很多雜質，要認識一個真心朋友並不容易。假若你也有識於微時的朋友，就要好好珍惜了。

My mom and I have always been really close. She’s always been the friend that was always there. There were times when, in middle school and junior high, I didn’t have a lot of friends. But my mom was always my friend. Always.

- Taylor Swift

誰說閨蜜就必須是跟我們同齡的人？家人對我們支持、信任、愛護，不就是一個好閨蜜的角色嗎？